A personal deep dive into my journey into discovering I was a little.

So as the title states I am a little. I began my BDSM journey in 2017, I was a freshly turned 18 year old with the desire to bottom and be babied lol. As a person I do not adhere to a “stereotypical” little, I am not petie and small in stature nor is my favorite color pink. I am a tall goth little with THE strongest desire to be babied. I knew I was a little when my previous partner brought up some of my little tendencies as he called them, such as baby talk and my vast collection of stuffies.

I took the questiencal to start any kinksters journey… the bdsm test lol what a throwback. Sure enough, a little was 100%. I became obsessed with c/gl , the gendered term being dd/lg. So my then partner became my first daddy. Back in the tumblr daysss, I learned about activities and eventually found a community.

Long after my relationship ended with my first daddy, the desire for BDSM and for a c/gl style relationship never went away. I went and had personal adds on fetlife and joined kinky dating apps. Low and behold I find my dream daddy and now husband on…..drum roll please match.com!!! I assumed he was a vanilla man, but soon after our first date I blurted out that I had a daddy kink and needed to be in a c/gl relationship if we were to continue. Here we are almost 4 years later.

• Desert Rose